‘ Canticl. 2. 13. Arise my Loue, my faire one, and come away.’
IT was the parable of Pythogoras, Cor ne edito, eate not thy Heart, which parable, although in it selfe it bee obscure; yet by the Sunshine of friendship, the Mist of obscurity is dispersed, [Page] and the true meaning of the Author thus plainely to be discerned; that those which want friends to reveale secrets, or open themselves unto, are devourers of their owne hearts. So great an Enemy to man is this his secret hatred, or aversation to societie, that it causeth him to degenerate; degenerating to participate of the nature of Savage Beasts, to become a Caniball, a Murtherer not of others but of himselfe.
[Page] If affliction should ayme at me, and I fall in company, a Friend may raise me againe, but vae soli, woe unto Eccles. 4. 10. him that is alone; woe unto him that is given over unto himselfe, for he falleth, and there is not a second to lift him up.
The Proverbe saying; One man's deemed none, meanes, Life is death where men do live alone.
Misery, it lookes merrily, so long as it may repaire to such as [Page] will affoord it mercy; for it easeth a grieved heart to see his friend pity him, who in pitying doth partake with him; And therefore not unfitly did the Romanes call friends Participes curarum.
I will here shew you two notable examples of the use of Friends, and tryall of Friendship; The first betwixt Ionathan and David, whose soules were knit together with the band of Amity: Ionathan you may see, in the [Page] first of Samuel. 19. 2. would not keepe his owne fathers counsell when it was against David his Friend, but revealed the plot to David; Saul, my Father, goeth about to slay thee: Yea, and he wrought so for him in his absence, that he brought him againe into the presence of Saul, his Father, as in time past. verse 7.
Secondly, observe what would have become of the man sicke of the Palsie (in the 5. [Page] of Saint Lukes Gospel and 18. verse) if he had had no Friends, he was too feeble of himselfe to crowd into the house, yea, his Friends, though men of ability, yet at first could find no way to helpe him; but at last, althogh it were through the tyleing, they found way to let downe miserum out miserecordem.
Here I cannot omit a third example, and Tyb. ad Seianum, haec pro amicitia nostra, non occultaui. that of Tiberius Caesar, with whom Sejanus had ascended, to that [Page] height of Friendship, that they two were reckoned as a paire of Friends, and the whole Senate did dedicate an Altar to Friendship, as to a Goddesse, in respect of the great and intire Friendship betwixt these two. So deare and precious is Trve Friendship, that when a man cannot find comfort in any other Cordiall whatsoever, then this is a Cordiall comfort to him, That he hath a Friend will ease his [Page] heart by taking part with him. A man may Francis Lord Verulam. take Sarza to open the Liver, Steele to open the Spleene, Flower of Sulphur for the Lungs, Castoreum for the Braine, but no receipt openeth the Heart but a true Friend to whom a man may boldly impart whatsoever lieth upon the Heart to oppresse it.
Wee now see of what use a good Friend is, and what need there is of him; but I confesse it is a difficult thing [Page] for us in this deceitful Defficilia quae pudera. time, to find out such a Friend; but what if such a Friend should come and proffer us this kindnesse, as with Ionathan, to knit His soule to the soules of us, that are Davids, the beloved of the Lord; would wee not accept of this Friend-like proffer? So it is, that Christ hath proffered Himselfe, and hath promised, that if wee will unite our selues with Him, in this league of Amitie, that [Page] although wee have so highly offended His Father, and by our inuentions plucked His wrath upon our heads; Yet hee will undertake to satisfie His Iustice, appease this His wrath, and avert His ire. Although by our depraved nature, wee have deprived our selues of His presence; Yet Hee will pleade so well for us, that wee shall againe be admitted into His presence, as in times past.
It was the speech of [Page] an Emperour (as I take it upon his deathbed) That hee had Severus. had all things, and now would give all things to be found in Christ: Now wee have on the contrary Christ freely offering Himselfe; and using all meanes possible to win us vnto Himselfe, inuiting us to the participation of His treasures; And because wee shall know that wee are not Friends, in the meanest ranke, or degree of Friendship, [Page] Hee is pleased not onely to distinguish, but also to dignifie us by a more neere, deere, and familiar title, as, His sister, His spouse, Cantic. 5. 1. Such as without whom, He will neither eate, or drinke; but if Hee hath eaten, they must doe so too: I have eaten my Hony-combe with my Hony, I have drunk my Wine with my milke; eate O Friends, yea, drinke aboundantly O beloved. Cantic. 5. 1. Yea, to say more, wee [Page] are such friends, as without whom, Hee will not live; but because Hee liveth, wee shall live also, Iohn 14. 19. No maruell then, if He doth so often inuite us, since wee are so neerely contracted, to rise up out of this Dungeon of Miserie, and to lie downe with Him, in His Pallace of Mercie. No lesse then twice in this one chapter, are wee invited by Himselfe. First in the Tenth Verse, My beloved spake, and said unto [Page] me, Rise up my Love, my faire one, and come away. And againe, in this Thirteenth Verse. Arise my Love, my faire one, and come away. Which words, are the words of that wise and Lovely King Solomon, inuiting his new Spouse to come with him from the place shee then did reside in, to His Princely Pallace in Ierusalem, but in the Misterie, behold a greater, a wiser, and farre more lovely then Solomon is heere. Non [Page] minus amans quam amor; Saith Saint Bernard: No lesse loving then Love it selfe; Heere is Christ the true Bridegroome curteously inuiting His Spouse, the Church, that is, every true beleever (Vos estis Templum Dei, saith Saint Paul) To forsake the World and the Flesh; which as Aquin. saith, fitly may bee termed, Cubilia Leonum, and Montes Pardorum, The hellish dennes of devilish Lyons, and mighty [Page] Mōntaines of bloody Leopards, Canti. 4. 5. These would Christ have his Spouse to forsake, and come and live with Him in His heavenly Ierusalem, or abide with Him on His Holy Mountaine, Psal. 15. 1.
In the words, there are these parts; Text.
- 1. A Taxation.
- 2. A Compellation.
- 3. An Inuitation.
- 1. Taxavit cum vexatione.
- [Page] 2. Appellavit cum appropriatione.
- 3. Inuitavit cum immutatione.
First, A Taxation. Arise.
Heere may some couzening conceited Opinonist begin to cavell in this sort; Will CHRIST allow His Church no ease? To which I answere, Hee will, and doth solemely charge, those that have to doe with the [Page] Church, not to disturbe the quietnesse thereof, as Cantic. 2. 7. I charge you Oh Daughters of Ierusalem, by the Roes, and by the Hindes of the fields, that yee stirre not up, nor waken my Love, untill shee please. But yet Hee will not allow her to take her ease in wickednesse, nor yet to bee lulled in the silken cradle of securitie; but when Hee seeth this, then He calls to her to arise, and come away, Arise my love, my faire one, &c.
[Page] Heere can I not give Anger its proper definition, because I cannot terme it a passion in Him, who is not subject to any, but it is rather heer, A calme resolution in God, to punish or prevent sin in us; It is not with God, as it is with divers of us, who after we are once angry, will scarce ever bee pleased againe; but in Him is rather compleately fulfilled that ancient and true Miner apud Eurip. laudat [...] Proverbe, Quo major eo placabilior; By [Page] how much the greater, by so much the sooner pleased : For wee are never so soone sorrowful for offending Him, But He is assoone mercifull to forgive us: But because the Anger of God is heere expressed in one word; I dare not stay to spend many in the exposition of the same; but onely let us hence obserue; That although His anger is contained in one word, Yet His Love is not fully expressed, but in many; [Page] My Love, my faire one, &c.
Although His anger lasteth but a while, yet His Love endureth for ever.
My Love, my Faire one, &c. Let us here take notice how God is pleased to dignifie his Church, and honor her with those familiar titles and termes of Love and Faire-One; Shee's lovely and faire because Shee's His: Many are the pledges of his sincere affection towards Her, by [Page] which Shee becomes lovely and faire, Venerunt mihi pariter omnia bona cum illa, wisd. 7. Love Tokens. 11. These the pledges of his love or affection are of three sorts.
- 1. Either,
Dona naturae.
Hugo de S. vici.
- 2. Or, Dona gratiae,
- 3. Or, Dona gloriae.
The gifts of Nature are, Memory, Reason, and Will, wherewith we excell brute beasts.
The gifts of Grace are, Faith, Hope, and [Page] Charity, with which we overcome the Devill.
The gifts of Glory, eternall and trve Happinesse, Dr. Rawlinson. happy and eternall Trueth, trve and happy Eternity, whereby we are made equall with the Angels, or as the same Author saith in another place, in token of His love He giveth her,
- Monile in Pectore.
- Annulum in Digito.
- Dotem in jure Hereditario.
- [Page]1. A Brooch upon her Breast.
- 2. A Ring upon her finger.
- 3. A royall dowrie for her inheritance.
- 1. In pectore ratio.
- 2. In manu operatio.
- 3. In dote utriusque remuneratio.
The Brooch (saith he) is Reason, the mother of Discourse; The Ring to grace her hand is Good-workes; and the recompence of [Page] both is her inheritance of a Kingdome.
These things I beleeve Objection he doth and will bestow on those whom He pleaseth thus to vnite unto Himselfe: but how can I, which am but a finite Creature, be thus united to an infinite Creator.
I answere, out of Baudwins words, Accepit naturaem & communicavit gratiam, that is, When Christ became incarnate, then thou becamest incorporate, that is, When [Page] Christ took upon Him thy humane nature, then did He impart unto thee his Divine.
Seeing then, that Vse. God is thus pleased to unite and appropriate us unto Himselfe, let not us proove false, or disloyall unto him, by running a whoring after strange gods, and so be led away by our owne inventions.
This we doe, when we preferre the pleasures of the world before the Love of God; and therefore it pleaseth [Page] the Holy-Ghost, in Scripture, to call us Adulterers, when we thus set our Affections upon the world, or any thing therein: Yee Adulterers and Adulteresses, Iames 4. know yee not that the amity of this world is enmity with God. Let us know we must not set up our rest here.
[Page] If wee enter with our selues into serious contemplation; wee shall find this to prove but a place of desolation, and therfore wee ought to be more sensible and carefull of our owne elevat on; Discite in hoc mundo Ambrose. lib. de virg. supra mundum esse, Et si corpus geritis volitat, in vobis, ales interior; quid ergo te in terram deijcis. Since thou hast the libertie of wings, why dost thou clog thy selfe with the cares of this world; [Page] what is there in the world that should thus delude us? If wee bee to day in as high promotion as Haman was with King Ahasuerus, may wee not have as suddaine a fall, if wee have great store of wealth; Riches have wings, and flie away, Haud vllas portabis opes Acharontis ad vndas. inopem me copia fecit, saith the Poet: And on the contrary, If we have Christ, with Him wee shall have all things. Omnia habemus Ambrose. Christs, & omnia in nobis Christus: Love [Page] not therfore this world 1 Ioh. 2. 15 nor the things that are in this world, Wee count it not a slight fault for a Woman to set her love and affection upon another man, when shee is contracted or married to a Husband, yea, wee count it an indignitie and dishonour, and the reason is, because God hath so dignified and pleased so to honour that estate in which they are united, and yet this is but a type of the union, betwixt [Page] Christ and His Church.
In these respects hath God pleased to honour that estate.
- 1.
Authoritate instituentis.
Paeraldus sum: virturum.
- 2. Loco in quo institutum est.
- 3. Tempore; in quo homo nondum pec caverat.
- 4. Antiquitate.
I. It was God Himselfe Authoritate. that first did institute it, Gen. 2. 28. [Page] there it is evident that God himselfe brought them first together.
Secondly, It was instituted in Paradise, Loco. and it is worthy our observation, and it maketh greatly to the honour of marriage, to consider that this alone was instituted in Paradise; for from hence may we note the happines of those that marry in the Lord, for they are not only married one to another, but Christ is married unto them.
[Page] Thirdly, it was in Tempore. the time of mans innocencie, the happiest time that ever man enjoyed or lived in, when God, with all the rest of his Creatures, were at peace with him before there needed any reconciliation, because there was never any disagreement.
Fourthly, it was the first order that God Antiquitate. did institute after mans Creation; and as it was the first that God the Father did institute: So did Christ [Page] God the Sonne, please to grace and dignifie it with the first miracle that ever he wrought on earth, which was at a marriage in Cana of Galile, where he turned the water into Wine. Iohn 2. 6.
Thus highly doth God please to esteeme of the contract which passeth betwixt man and woman, as thus to dignifie it, where He Himselfe was but a guest; and shall we thinke he will lesse esteem of that contract [Page] where He Himselfe is Bridegroome.
Since it hath pleased him out of his love Vse. so to honour us, let not us be wanting in our love and respect again towards Him: Let not the consideration of this His infinite love to us, cause us to slacke our love to Him, because it comes so farre short of His; for He knowes what we are able to doe and expects no more; affectum non effectum requirit Deus, Ambrose. God lookes that willingnesse [Page] should vsher in all our obedience, Non intuetur Deus quantum quis valeat, sed quantum velit, quic-quid vis, & non potes factum computat; Let us therefore willingly love Him againe, because he hath loved us first.
It was one of the plagues and tortures wherewith that cruell Tyrant Mezentius did use to murther men:
(Mortua quinetiā iungebat corpora vivis, [Page] Componens manibusque manus at que oribus ora) To tye the living and dead together and cast them both into a dungeon, there to continue till they were both in one case. By this cruell tyranisme is figured unto us, those matches, or marriages, where love is wanting; which often happeneth by these occasions; First, when marriage is without the consent of either of the parties requisite and therefore essentiale [Page] quiddam in matrimonio est consensus, for as Catullus saith, Virginitas non tota tua est ex parte parentum est, Altera pars patri data pars est altera matri, Tertia sola tua est.
Secondly, when the quod subito ex [...]itur flu [...]at subito. parties are too hasty, and so rashly adventure before affection on both sides is setled; we have an old saying, which is very certaine, deliberandum est diu quod statuendum est semel, for this affected dispatch is one of the [Page] most dangerous enemies to serious busines that can be: It is like to that which the Phisicians call Praedigestion, Homer. quem versum. M. Tullius itae convertie turda & sera nimis sed fama & laude perennis. or hasty digestion, which is sure to fill the body full of Crudities and secret seeds of diseases, [...].
Is it not reason that quo significatur ea quae sero contingunt magnifica plerunque & diuturna esse solere. we should, negotium suscipere cunctanter, when we must in suscepto permanere constanter.
Thirdly, when the Dowrie is rather married [Page] then the Wife, with a huic habeo, non tibi: I have thee for this thing; and not for thy selfe.
Now in this spirituall Marriage, none of these consents are wanting. First heere is the consent of God the Father, who gave His onely begotten Sonne, &c. Hee was willing that Christ, who so intirely loved us, should unite us unto Himselfe.
Secondly, there is, the consent of Christ [Page] our Bridegroome, who gave Himselfe, &c.
Now there wanteth none but our consent, which; if wee respect our owne good, wee cannot denie? I remember Palingenius, concluding upon necessitie, Ergo vxor ducenda est, gives this advice, Prius tamen aspice quae sit.
Precipue matris mores aduerte patrisque, Nam,
Qualis quae (que) arbos, tales solet edere fructus.
Now I have already [Page] shewed you the linage of this our Spirituall Bridegroome, that Hee is the onely begotten Sonne of God.
Secondly, heere is not in Him an ovet-hastie rashnesse, for although Hee loveth us rather then his life; as sufficiently Hee hath witnessed by his death, yet Hee mooveth our affection towards himselfe by degrees.
Thirdly, Hee sues not for the Dowrie, for alasse what have wee poore miserable soules [Page] that may move Him, to set His love or affection upon, I can see no reason of His Love, but His love it selfe, Stat pro ratione voluntas. His meere good will is the onely cause, and all Hee lookes for againe, is our good will; Nec is aliud quaerit, nec illa aliud habet, Neither Bamard. doth hee seeke for any thing else, neither have wee any thing else to give Him.
It was answered by one of the old Philosophers in Laertius, being asked when a young [Page] man should marry, [...], not as yet; when an old man, [...], not at all: But let us contrarywise learne to remember our Creatour in the dayes of our youth, old or young, let us know it is now time, yea, and high time to give consent upon so reasonable conditions; Yea, it is now a case of necessitie, Si non sponte vi pares coactus either we must yeeld to be espoused to Christ, who doth dearely love us, or else wee must be contracted [Page] to the Devill, who doth deadly loath us; Let us now judge whether it be better to be beloved of a friend, or loathed of a fiend.
Iustin saith, That this our Antagonist, the Devill, is Dei Simia, Gods Ape, and indeed this word Ape, doth very well agree with him in this respect; Even as the Ape by kindnesse kills her whelpe; with too much love, and lulling in her armes: So will not Sathan then denie us [Page] helpe, when as his help may yeeld us greater harmes.
Amando occidit, his love is their death, whoever they are, hee once commeth to hug, or imbrace; not much unlike to Ammon, who after he had once deflowred his sister Tamar, he hated her ever after; And wee shall find, that what show of love soever this our Enemie hath made to us before, Yet his hatred after, will be farre greater, Dionisius the [Page] elder, noted very well, when seeing his mother very old, and overstriken in yeeres, desirous to marry a young stripling; that althogh it were in her power to violate the Lawes of Syracusa, yet not to violate the law of Nature: So let me tell you; That although it may seeme easie in your conceit, to violate the lawes of men, yet shall it not be easie to violate the lawes of God, by whose edict it stands decreed; That [Page] either wee must be His Spouse, or the Devills harlot; with the one wee shall find Treasure incomparable, with the other trouble intollerable, of the one, wee shall find a pretious treasure, of the other a pernitious traytor; Wee can desire no more then the first, if wee refuse the last, and wee can deserue no lesse then the last, if wee refuse the first.
I believe not that wee can justly tax Olimpias the mother of [Page] Alexander, for banishing a noble woman of Macedonia, from her Court, because shee preferred wealth before vertue, in marrying a rich foole; No more can we taxe God of injustice, if He bannish us from His princely pallace, where wee should have beene crowned, if wee had espoused him the King of heaven, if wee neglecting him, become harlots to that old spirituall fornicatour, the Devill before mentioned.
[Page] My Love, and faire one, &c. Hence let us take notice that wee are His, and no others, My beloved is mine, and I am His; Verse, 16. Yea, if wee rightly consider it, wee are more His then our owne; and therefore wee should haue alwayes a greater care to please Him, then to please our selues.
Hence also may we obserue the happinesse of true believers above others; They alone shall participate of [Page] this His extraordinary Love, whereas others shall be excluded this heavenly Paradice, as Harlots, not worthy to be received, but rather to receive their portion with the Devill, and his Angels for ever.
My Love, &c. Here wee see, Hee pleaseth to speake in the singular number, to let us understand that He hath but one Love, but one true Church, as therefore, hee will admit of no other, no [Page] more ought wee: There shall bee but one Sheepherd, and one sheep-fold. Wee read of none but wicked Lamech before the flood, that had more wives then one, and him Iovinnian called a Monster, because he made two ribs of one; Yea, and another obserueth, that the name of his second wife did signifie a shadow, because that shee was not a wife, but the shadow of a wife, So in like manner, there is but one Catholike [Page] Church, the Roman, some thinke, no better then Lamech's second wife, but the shadow of a wife; but admit her Christs spouse, yet shee hath many foule faults in her, much levitie and wantonnesse, which God amend: But because this will deprive me of my intended discourse, I therefore leave it, and come againe to the same words before handled.
My Love and faire one, &c. Here is both a [Page] likely portion, and a lovely proportion; she is both lovely & beautifull. Here is His love expressed to his church in many more words then his Anger, which lasteth but a while, but this His love shall endure for ever, She is not now his sister only, but His Spouse also; not onely His Spouse, but also His Love; and not His Love alone, but His Faire-one; Faire, first in respect of Her Beauty; secondly, in respect of her Order [Page] Cant. 4. 1. Behold, thou art faire my Love, behold, thou art faire.
First, in respect of Her Beauty; The inward gifts of Grace doe shine more brightly in Her; Her jmage which was before by nature defaced, is now againe revived; Christ in Her doth now behold her former perfection, and therefore, when He had reckoned Her beautifull parts in particular, as, Thine That is Zeale and Knowledg. Iun: Eyes are like the Doves, &c. * They two Breasts [Page] are as two yong Roes that are twinnes, feeding among the Lillies: He concludes in the 7th. vers. of the 4th. Chap. Thou are all faire my Love, and there is no spot in Thee.
Secondly, in respect of Order, which is the Beauty of every thing, for where no Order is, there is deformity, and where Order is observed, there is comelines. If you heare but an eloquent Oration, will ye not judge the beauty the beauty thereof, [Page] rather to consist in the curious composing, or knitting together of those Rhetoricall flowers, thē in the flowers or sentences thēselves. It is so in every Society; An Army mixed together is a confused multitude, but in their Order, a beautifull company. It is reported of the Queene of Sheba, that came so far to see Solomon, that when she beheld the sitting of his servants, and the attendance of his Ministers, and their [Page] apparell, and his Cup-bearers, &c. There was no more spirit in her, 1 King. 10. 4, 5. She was ravished here, with the very Order and decency of him that was but a type of Christ and his Church, then whose Order, nothing is more beautifull. Wherein, every one affecteth not Supremacy, but some bare one Office, and some another; some Apostles, some Prophets, some workers of Miracles, some Heare, some reade, some Preach, some [Page] Pray, every one do something in their Order.
Thus having mixt her Beauty with order, you see in what a beautifull order the Church remaines.
Lastly, invitavit cum A solitudine seculi; ad solicitudinem Caeli. immutatione—Come away, wee ought not now to tarry, when God calls, Si deserveris coronaberis, si manseris laniaberis. It is the king of heaven that calleth us, who are ready to run into the mouth of the devouring Lyon: Let us therefore run hastily [Page] towards Him, and cry Him mercy, that wee have beene so long disobedient, and have so long stopped our eares at His call; let us now run and cary with us, Gemitum in pectore; Singulttm in gutture, Fletum in facie.
Groanes in our brest, Sighes in our throats, Teares in our eyes; let there no lōger be need for Him to cry, How long would I, but ye would not? But let us now hast to meet Him who comes not to leade us [Page] out of prison, to the place of execution, but to a place of joy inexpressible, to the promised Paradise, which as he is willing, so also is hee able to bestow upon us.
There are but three kingdomes, Heaven, Earth, and Hell, and he is Lord and Master of them all. First He is Lord of Heaven, ad donandum, to reward us with. Secondly, He is Lord of Earth, ad dominandum, to rule and gouerne it: and thirdly, [Page] He is Lord of Hell, ad domandum to vanquish it.
And this is that Lordly Bridegroome, betwixt whom and us, the Covenants were drawne in Baptisme, and have oft since bin sealed and confirmed in the Lords Supper. Let us therfore hasten with this our princely Bridgeroome, unto our coronation; which although it cannot bee comepleately finished till our Soules shall have forsaken these [Page] earthly Tabernacles; Yet then shal we, without molestation, enjoy that united peace with God, in piety, and with our selves in security: although we shal neuermore injoy the communion of His affliction; yer shall we evermore injoy the union of His affection. In the meane time let us labour and indeavour, since he hath been so loving to us, daily to increase our love againe towards Him; This our love to Him must be expressed
- 1. Corde.
- 2. Corpore.
[Page] [...] [Page] [...] [Page] First in the heart, there true Love out to be founded, that it may endure so long as the heart doeth, which is primum vivens, but ultimum moriens.
Secondly, Corpore. By the body is heere meant, all outward respect, and reverence, wee have given Him our soules, and shall we deny Him our bodies; He hath given Himselfe both to us, and for us, and shall we keepe backe any thing from Him; He hath not onely promised us a crowne hereafter, but hath crowned us heere, Ezech. [Page] 16. 12. He hath set a Iewell on our Fore-head, and earerings in thine eares, and a beautifull Crowne upon thy Head.
In time of Peace, a Crowne of White-roses of Innocency.
In Persecution, a crowne composed of the Re-roses of Martyrdome.
Now wee are crowned heere, if wee desire to bee crowned hereafter; Wee must arise out of this Haven of misery, and arive at the Heaven of Mercy; And then shall there not bee neede for [Page] this our Lordly Bridegroome to call againe the third time,